Return to site

Day 18:  Agree to disagree?

One small step for man, one giant leap for Candrew (Candace)

Bueno to Villaviciosa

Distance: 12.8 miles (20.6 kilometers)

Total Ascent:  420 meters

Difficulty:  3

Calories Burned: 2,555

What a lazy way to start the day.  We slept in and then had our “veranda breakfast” while listening to Appalachian music and reading/writing.  I took at nap at 11, and finally, at noon, we rolled out and back onto the Camino.

It felt so luxurious to take a half day, but we still made up the time.  By 6pm, we had walked 12.6 miles, barely taken a break, and were ready for dinner and some Golden Compass reading.

But today was also a day of much conversation for Andrew and me, which was the source of some agitation. He asked me about my opinion on standardized testing (a topic that I don’t feel passionately about, one way or the other) and later asked me, if I could be an expert in the humanities, what would I want to be an expert in (again, a topic that, while I appreciate his passion for, isn’t a topic I feel the same passion towards). By the time I responded with a lack of response to the second topic, he was agitated, and so was I.

But I noticed something in our little tiff. We grew today. In the past, when the other person would give us an answer that we didn’t agree with, we’d push and then, when we didn’t get our way, we’d walk off in a huff, both exasperated and frustrated, but too proud to let it go. 

We didn’t do that today.

Add paragraph text here.

It may sound like a small triumph, but it was meaningful to us.  We learned something about ourselves today, and we are learning how to communicate.  What an awesome accomplishment.

All Posts

Almost done…

We just sent you an email. Please click the link in the email to confirm your subscription!

OKSubscriptions powered by Strikingly